How do I love myself? What does that even mean?

How do I create a relationship with me?

Am I the problem? Is it that I don't have enough allowance of the person? Or is it them?

What’s my reality in relationship?

How do I create relationships that work for me? What does that even look like?

Is it possible to actually create communion with another?

Should I just give up? Am I doomed?

How do I stop head tripping and actually trust myself? How do I tap into my intuition and knowing?

What’s wrong with me?

Are my standards “too high”? Am I being unrealistic?

What if the grass is actually greener?

Why can’t I just be satisfied in relationship and happy like everybody else?


If you've answered 'YES' to one or more of these questions, you're in the right place!


I used to ask these questions approximately 989 times a day.. until I was introduced to a set of tools, questions and processes that allowed me to:

-> Release subconscious programming / stories / beliefs holding me back, keeping me from creating the relationships I've always known were possible,
-> Learn my worth, how to receive myself, stop judging myself and actually like.. ME,
-> Settle the monkey mind, strengthen my intuition (awareness) and trust myself;
-> Gain clarity on what was actually true for me and what I desired to create as relationship;
-> Create beyond family patterns and have my reality in relationship;
-> Attract people into my life who were kind to me, had my back and contributed to me becoming more of me (and not less).

(Which changed all of my relationships in the process - including my relationship wiht money, my body, my business & the Universe).

And that's what I'm here to introduce you to!

"I received the information about the UnF*ck Yourself Program a week or so after seeing a psychic who told me, yet again, that before finding a relationship I first had to love myself.

To say that the program is transformative is an understatement.

Journeying with a group of amazing beings for 12 -16 weeks, beings unafraid to be vulnerable, is a unique experience.

Ashlee is an incredible facilitator that embodies ease, space, joy, allowance and lightness even in the challenging and “heavier” topics that come up. She is so present with the energy and has a gift of bringing the group through the dark to the other side where different possibility and light are available.

The program is a gift in becoming the tools more, with practical weekly homeplay of questions, clearings, and concepts.

It has pulled together parts of me to experience greater communion.

Whenever I now feel that there is something wrong with me, I actually have ease with it. I acknowledge the insanity. Ask questions. I have more space, more ease, more being, more allowance – of me and with others.

I remind myself every day - my job is to receive the gift of me. I am a gift.

I notice the judgments are not playing around in my head and I have greater communication with my body - much more ease.

For the first time I am asking questions about what I would like to create and what works for me.

I can’t wait to go through the program in my own time again as every time I listen to the recordings I gain access to more of me".

Total Trust In You

Is it time to say goodbye to doubt and head-tripping, and actually trust what you know? What would change in all of your relationships (including your relationship with money, business, your body) if you actually trusted you?

Creating Beyond Need & Validation

Your need to be validated makes it impossible to receive how brilliant you actually are. Is it time to stop looking through other people’s eye’s to validate your worth and consequently, your existence? Imagine never requiring validation again?

Peace With YOU (& Others)

You’ve done lots of classes, had multiple sessions and the same stuff keeps surfacing? This week will be a game changer! Beyond the presumptive realities and needs of reactive realties you have about you (and relationships), lies the peace you’ve been searching for. 

Finding & Having Your Voice

Having your voice is never making anybody else’s reality greater than yours or giving your reality up. It’s your willingness to include you in the world. Is not just receiving the world around you, it’s also you being part of it. Is it time to find your voice in your relationships?

The Keys To Liking You

The five elements of intimacy are honour, trust, gratitude, vulnerability & allowance, and are the keys to creating a great relationship with.. YOU (first and foremost). You’ve heard lots of people speak about these elements, but what are they really? What if they were no longer just words or something you’ll “get to”, and you actually had them with you? Imagine waking up and actually liking who you are?

Your Reality With Relationship: What If You Are Not Wrong, Just Different?

The information you should have been given from day 1 about your difference in relationship, and how you actually function.

Closing The Back Door

As long as you have a back door you're always looking for the judgment that proves you need to leave. But who are you actually leaving? How much have you been creating all of your relationships (with money, your body, the Universe, with your partner) based on the distance you’re comfortable with, so you never have to receive.. you?

Let's Get Clear

What are you doing relationship for? What do you desire to create as relationship? And what actually works for you? Until you’re clear on this, you’ll keep creating relationships against you, rather than for you.

The Keys To Creating & Actualising Creationships

Creationship is where two people play together to create a greater life. Whether it be friendships or romantic relationships, imagine if everyone who stepped into your life from now on had your back, received you, was kind, caring and nurturing, and invited you to more of YOU. Learn the tools to pull them in with EASE.

Communication Beyond The Words

Energy is your first language. How do you actually communicate? What ease can you have with communication within relationship that you’ve never been empowered to know?

The Power Of Aloneness

Is aloneness something you avoid or fear? Only if we are willing to have aloneness can we have communion with ourselves or another person or thing. If you buy the lie that aloneness is real you must also buy the lie that there is nothing or no-one that desires to contribute to you. 

AND:

Enjoying Your Body

Is it time to go beyond judging your body and actually receive it? What if you could experience the joy of embodiment this lifetime? What ease is available with your body that you’ve not yet chosen?

Humanoids, Sex & Sexualness

What’s different about your reality with sex that you’ve never been empowered to know? What if sex could actually be enjoyable and fun, and an area of your life you no longer judged you for? Is it time to unlock the sexualness you be?

Beyond Your Mother & Father

Most of us grow up re-creating our parents reality (and insanities) in relationship. A lot of us even base our relationships upon the parent who loved us the least. If you out created your parents insanities within relationship, what space and ease would be available to you then?

& much more based on your questions and what you'd like to get out of the program!