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What does that word bring up for you?

Joy, communion, ease and peace? Or doubt, judgment, wrongness, despair or total avoidance?

I don’t just mean your relationships outside of you, I also mean your relationship with you!

Relationship can be an incredibly complex, time consuming and confusing area in a lot of our lives.. and what if it didn’t have to be?

So many of us grow up having no clue how to create relationships that actually work for us, or what that even means.

The thing is, the relationship with yourself sets the tone for every relationship in your life, but most of us have spent our lives making everyone else the source of our lives (and happiness) over ourselves, and then wonder why our lives don’t look the way we desire, no matter how much “work” we do.

Trying to understand what we desire within relationship, what’s true for us and who we actually are (beyond who we’ve decided we are & everyone else’s judgments, projections and expectations of us)—can seem incredibly overwhelming. And that’s exactly what this program was created for: to empower you to reclaim.. YOU.

What if there was something totally different and possible when it came to relating with others (& the Universe) - and creating the communion and peace that you always knew should be possible?

If you were actually empowered with the tools and information you should have been given from day 1, what might be possible for you in the area of relationship then?

Whether you’re single, taken, married, or have no clue what you desire - what if it’s not too late?

What if what you’ve actually been searching for (and seeking) within all of your relationships was.. YOU?
A 12 WEEK PROGRAM to set you free in the area of relationship and empower you with the information and tools you should have been given from day 1.

Is now the time for all of the relationships in your life to change and become greater, with ease?


..create relationships that work, beginning with YOU!


Save my place

Have you ever asked yourself one (or more) of these questions?

How do I love myself? What does that even mean?

How do I create a relationship with me?

Am I the problem? Is it that I don't have enough allowance of the person? Or is it them?

What’s my reality in relationship?

How do I create relationships that work for me? What does that even look like?

Is it possible to actually create communion with another?

Should I just give up? Am I doomed?

How do I stop head tripping and actually trust myself? How do I tap into my intuition and knowing?

What’s wrong with me?

Are my standards “too high”? Am I being unrealistic?

What if the grass is actually greener?

Why can’t I just be satisfied in relationship and happy like everybody else?

If you've answered 'YES' to one or more of these questions, you're in the right place!

I used to ask these questions approximately 989 times a day.. until I was introduced to a set of tools, questions and processes that allowed me to:

-> Release subconscious programming / stories / beliefs holding me back, keeping me from creating the relationships I've always known were possible,
-> Learn my worth, how to receive myself, stop judging myself and actually like.. ME,
-> Settle the monkey mind, strengthen my intuition (awareness) and trust myself;
-> Gain clarity on what was actually true for me and what I desired to create as relationship;
-> Create beyond family patterns and have my reality in relationship;
-> Attract people into my life who were kind to me, had my back and contributed to me becoming more of me (and not less).

(Which changed all of my relationships in the process - including my relationship wiht money, my body, my business & the Universe).

And that's what I'm here to introduce you to!

What people are saying..

Wendy Dursten

- Australia

"Thank you Ashlee, for being willing to lead us where your awareness took us. You have changed my life and I am so grateful.

The one area of my life that I had resisted looking at for 11+ years was relationship. 

During the UnF*ck Yourself program we looked at so many different topics, and the flow of the calls (that you were aware was required) was amazing - each call building on the other. 

Since the program, there's now so much more ease, joy and relaxation in my life, being and body. 

It amazes me on a daily basis how much I have changed over the weeks, which is still ongoing. Now I am really willing to make choices that are going to make my life and living so much more fun. Something I struggled to see 6 months ago but had a glimmer it was possible".

Leah Guest

- Australia

"Words really can’t describe just how amazing it has been to journey with Ashlee, and the other amazing ladies, in the UnF*ck Yourself program. 

I’ve found myself telling people, I feel like a new version of ME every day! 

Ashlee’s knowing of what is ‘sticking you’ is a gift, and her guidance to help you work with it and do your ‘inner work’ quickly and with ease, is a credit to the amazing being that she is. 

Being part of this program has helped me accept all of me with less judgement and more kindness, and to be open to receiving relationships that are a contribution to me. 

I recommend anyone who is ready to stop hiding and wanting to shine their unique and amazing light even brighter, to follow their awareness to work with Ashlee, you won’t regret it!"

Ivanka Nightingale

- Australia

"I received the information about the UnF*ck Yourself Program a week or so after seeing a psychic who told me, yet again, that before finding a relationship I first had to love myself.

To say that the program is transformative is an understatement.

Journeying with a group of amazing beings for 12 -16 weeks, beings unafraid to be vulnerable, is a unique experience.

Ashlee is an incredible facilitator that embodies ease, space, joy, allowance and lightness even in the challenging and “heavier” topics that come up. She is so present with the energy and has a gift of bringing the group through the dark to the other side where different possibility and light are available.

The program is a gift in becoming the tools more, with practical weekly homeplay of questions, clearings, and concepts.

It has pulled together parts of me to experience greater communion.

Whenever I now feel that there is something wrong with me, I actually have ease with it. I acknowledge the insanity. Ask questions. I have more space, more ease, more being, more allowance – of me and with others.

I remind myself every day - my job is to receive the gift of me. I am a gift.

I notice the judgments are not playing around in my head and I have greater communication with my body - much more ease.

For the first time I am asking questions about what I would like to create and what works for me.

I can’t wait to go through the program in my own time again as every time I listen to the recordings I gain access to more of me".

Brigitta David

- Hungary

"When I met Ashlee in the online space I knew that her energy and being was calling me. She is beautiful inside and out! I have attended the Relationships Done Different Masterclass with her, which was a milestone and a humongous leap in my life.

I was single for 9 years and I really required to look at where I was functioning from, to be able to change what I desired to change.

After class, I was able to let go the need and want of relationship and became total space and allowance for what is. That I am a whole and all is well. I was a clean canvas and ready to receive what/who showed up in my life. 

Two months later, my Princess charming knocked on my door, ready for an Access Bars swap. Now we are a happy couple, creating a life together with joy!

I know I know - it sounds like a fairy tale - but what if life really is a fairy tale and everything we can imagine is possible?

I can’t recommend Ashlee and her classes and creations enough. Absolutely life and world changing what she is doing! Thank YOU Ashlee (the fairy godmother)."


Total Trust In You

Is it time to say goodbye to doubt and head-tripping, and actually trust what you know? What would change in all of your relationships (including your relationship with money, business, your body) if you actually trusted you?

Creating Beyond Need & Validation

Your need to be validated makes it impossible to receive how brilliant you actually are. Is it time to stop looking through other people’s eye’s to validate your worth and consequently, your existence? Imagine never requiring validation again?

Peace With YOU (& Others)

You’ve done lots of classes, had multiple sessions and the same stuff keeps surfacing? This week will be a game changer! Beyond the presumptive realities and needs of reactive realties you have about you (and relationships), lies the peace you’ve been searching for. 

Finding & Having Your Voice

Having your voice is never making anybody else’s reality greater than yours or giving your reality up. It’s your willingness to include you in the world. Is not just receiving the world around you, it’s also you being part of it. Is it time to find your voice in your relationships?

The Keys To Liking You

The five elements of intimacy are honour, trust, gratitude, vulnerability & allowance, and are the keys to creating a great relationship with.. YOU (first and foremost). You’ve heard lots of people speak about these elements, but what are they really? What if they were no longer just words or something you’ll “get to”, and you actually had them with you? Imagine waking up and actually liking who you are?

Your Reality With Relationship: What If You Are Not Wrong, Just Different?

The information you should have been given from day 1 about your difference in relationship, and how you actually function.

Closing The Back Door

As long as you have a back door you're always looking for the judgment that proves you need to leave. But who are you actually leaving? How much have you been creating all of your relationships (with money, your body, the Universe, with your partner) based on the distance you’re comfortable with, so you never have to receive.. you?

Let's Get Clear

What are you doing relationship for? What do you desire to create as relationship? And what actually works for you? Until you’re clear on this, you’ll keep creating relationships against you, rather than for you.

The Keys To Creating & Actualising Creationships

Creationship is where two people play together to create a greater life. Whether it be friendships or romantic relationships, imagine if everyone who stepped into your life from now on had your back, received you, was kind, caring and nurturing, and invited you to more of YOU. Learn the tools to pull them in with EASE.

Communication Beyond The Words

Energy is your first language. How do you actually communicate? What ease can you have with communication within relationship that you’ve never been empowered to know?

The Power Of Aloneness

Is aloneness something you avoid or fear? Only if we are willing to have aloneness can we have communion with ourselves or another person or thing. If you buy the lie that aloneness is real you must also buy the lie that there is nothing or no-one that desires to contribute to you. 


Enjoying Your Body

Is it time to go beyond judging your body and actually receive it? What if you could experience the joy of embodiment this lifetime? What ease is available with your body that you’ve not yet chosen?

Humanoids, Sex & Sexualness

What’s different about your reality with sex that you’ve never been empowered to know? What if sex could actually be enjoyable and fun, and an area of your life you no longer judged you for? Is it time to unlock the sexualness you be?

Beyond Your Mother & Father

Most of us grow up re-creating our parents reality (and insanities) in relationship. A lot of us even base our relationships upon the parent who loved us the least. If you out created your parents insanities within relationship, what space and ease would be available to you then?

& much more based on your questions and what you'd like to get out of the program!


4 x 75 minute group facilitation sessions to empower you to clear the beliefs, judgments & conclusions that are keeping you stuck, and give you tools to create your reality with relationship

An online community that has your back, who you can utilise as much as you desire to further empower and support you on anything that’s coming up for you between our sessions. You’re not alone in this!

A PDF of homeplay each week (questions, tools and clearings) related to the weekly topic to further empower you to clear what's keeping you stuck.


12-week group relationship coaching program
Small group - limited to 20 spaces
12 x group coaching sessions via Zoom (valued at $1800)
Private Telegram group - for ongoing support and empowerment ($500)
Homeplay each week (PDF) - put into practice what you've learnt ($600)
5 x 30 minute guided meditations to cultivate greater intimacy with self (valued at $250)
Intimacy With Body, Money & Business: 3-part Telecall Series (valued at $450)


Are you ready to UnF*ck Yourself?

One-time payment

$1995 AUD

Lifetime founding member price
Receive $500 in bonus calls & energy pulls if you sign-up and pay in full before April 16.
Yes please!
Four monthly payments

$525 AUD

Lifetime founding member price
First payment payable upon sign-up, and then payment will be automatically deducted on the same date you signed up, for following three months
What else people are saying..

Nicole Hansen

- Switzerland

"UnFuck yourself Program with Ashlee has changed my world. So grateful to have been able to start my Access journey with her. Once a week was brilliant for me to “digest” things and every time I thought that was the most amazing call so far, next one topped it.

I have had so many awarenesses during this program that have completely set me free of so many points of view. 

I’m now able to receive and perceive my awareness and know what’s true for me.

Ashlee is so present and such a gift and always follows the energy to bring us all closer to see the gift we all are."

Judy Wooff

- Canada

"I am super grateful to you and your incredible facilitation, Ashlee!

The UnFuck Yourself program has been a game changer. I have received the power, potency and ease of acknowledging MY reality.

During the program I received clear and concise ways to strengthen the muscles required for having my own reality of possibilities while living in this reality.

I have been ‘doing’ Access to the best of my ability for 11 years and Ashlee’s facilitation brought all of that cognitive knowledge into my body at a cellular level.

Ashlee facilitates with allowance and vulnerability, and weaves the tools of Talk To The Entities, Right Voice For You and Relationships Done Different into the program all of which created greater consciousness for us".

Janine Steele

- Australia

"The Relationship Done Different class I attended with Ashlee was a total game changer. 

I went from questioning whether my marriage was going to last to being in a space of total gratitude and love for my husband and children. 

By the end of the 3 days I had a deep sense of inner peace and more love in my heart. This class has the power to change every area of your life. 

Ashlee’s facilitation is a magical gift. Highly recommend!!”

Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ):

Are recordings included?

Yes, of each group call and private session.

How is payment taken?

If you're paying monthly, the initial payment will be payable upon signing up, and then the following two payments will be automatically deduced from your account each month, on the date you initially signed-up for the program.

What is the refund policy / commitment?

The commitment to this program is minimum of one-month.

If after the first month you decide this program is not for you, you will receive a refund for the remaining 2 months (if paid in full - minus bank fees), or your automatic payment will be cancelled.

I have no interest keeping you around (or taking your money) if you don't truly desire to be here!


Relationship was a topic that I’d decided I’d sucked at.. big time.
I remember turning 29 and thinking that I was just going to have to accept that I may never be “happy” or satisfied in relationship this lifetime.

And as much as that was hard to swallow, I knew somewhere within the depths of my very Being that something else was possible, I just didn’t know what that looked like yet.

From the age of 17 I had been on and off with multiple partners (running back to my exes whenever I could). I made whoever I was dating the source of my life and gave myself (and my dreams) up for them, totally lost myself in the process, spent 98% of my time in my head thinking about whether my relationships were right or wrong for me, and had no clue where to begin when it came to “loving” myself.

I had heard a lot of “experts” and coaches say that you had to love yourself in order to love others, yet each time I did a class or course on self-love I seemed to get more and more confused as to what that even looked like.

During the last years of my 20’s trying to “find myself” again my relationships became less and less fun and the only option I thought I had was to leave my partner..

That was until I was introduced to the tools of Relationships Done Different in April 2019, when everything changed.

I stopped giving myself up in my relationship, I found me, I began working towards my dreams (and have since created a successful Business), I learnt what loving myself actually looked like.. and I did all of this while still in a relationship.

I was empowered to know that something else different was available when it comes to relationship, and that change didn’t have to be a long or difficult road.

I was empowered to know that I wasn’t wrong (or doomed), and introduced to simple and pragmatic tools that allowed me to clear limiting beliefs that were keeping me stuck.

What would it be like if all of the relationships in your life too could change and become greater with ease?

Are you ready to UnF*ck Yourself?

One-time payment

$1995 AUD

Lifetime founding member price
Receive $500 in bonus calls & energy pulls if you sign-up and pay in full before April 16.
Yes please!
Four monthly payments

$525 AUD

Lifetime founding member price
First payment payable upon sign-up, and then payment will be automatically deducted on the same date you signed up, for following three months
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